Those who know me, know I can be such a hot head. I'm not one to be walked over at all, and I hate to have unresolved issues, I want matters ironed out, cards on the table...any misunderstandings cleared once and for all, so life can go on. I hate irritating people, meddlers and disrespectful ones...who have no consideration for other ppl's space or privacy...and I never shy to immediately give them a piece of my mind no matter how blunt it may come out...when it has to be done, I will show up for that party and unapologetically so.
So recently, this very 'interesting' person has been utterly irritating me, granted there is a history between us so perhaps that is influencing my judgement a lot. I have been tempted to jump down her throat and put in her place once and for all, then it hit me...is she really worth my time and energy? And the answer was an overwhelming NO...some people are so shallow and insecure that they wont even have the courage to face you and challenge you boldly, yet will try to manipulate you into an argument coz in that way they save face and make you look unruly.
So ryt there, decision made...I'm not showing up for this argument, and will not be manipulated into engaging in it...its not worth my time and effort...Everything in me is screaming for her blood, but you know what am a bigger person than that, and I know how to choose my battles very well, so am looking the other way...if you wanna engage with me...u will have to raise your standards dear, and come up to my level...case closed!
ZeeK love...
Uyabhora.. why ungafaki isbhakela?
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