How we communicate our feelings and needs will determine how we get treated in life. Its been said that we teach people how to treat us and personally, I totally agree with that statement, coz unless you are articulate about how you want people to relate to you, you will be screwed over always. We cannot go through life expecting people to know what to do, how to do it and when to do it. Some people just have no freaking clue, period. They can even think they do,only to find their way doesn't work for you....so u have a choice...u can either grin and bear it and have meaningless relationships...or u can speak yr mind...
Draw the boundary lines clearly so people know exactly who and what they dealing with...never let the fear of being misunderstood stand in your way...people that truly love you, be it yr lover, yr sista, or yr friend, have your best interest at heart...they care for you enough to want to make you happy and to have your relationship grow stronger and better. If speaking your mind dents your relationship, then perhaps u shudn't be having those people in yr life...the sooner u accept that...the quicker u can move on ....gotta say though timing coupled with good attitude is everything in effective communication.....if your timing and yr attitude suck u r just as screwed......trust me!
ZeeK love...
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