Since y'all wont shut up about this Valentine shit...lemme tell you what I really think about the whole thing. I have no issues with being in love and showing people you love how much you really do love them. However when you have people who won't give it a thought in the rest 364 days of the year and only think that doing so on just this one day makes up for their stupidity and insensitivity, then ryt there we have a problem.
And then, on the other hand you have the ones waiting to receive gifts, they never make any effort to show any love, to appreciate and support their partners, to build good and lasting relationships but then just expect grand gifts on Valentines...love is giving, before u expect, check how much u have given...otherwise you will taste the bitter sting of Karma...so if u are disappointed that u not getting the attention u were expecting today....re-trace yr steps...if u r honest with yrself u will see that perhaps you do not even deserve a simple sms....
And to my loved ones that had to endure my cold response to their well wishes today...my sincere apologies....got nothing but crazy love for y'all...but like my friend Milo said to me this am...screw Valentine if it cant be with me...my take on the matter is...screw life if it can't be with my loved ones....those who genuinely love...give it...always..and receive it back in abundance...
And to the naive ones...go give yr virginity away all in the name of Valentine...get drunk and have sex without condoms....break the vows u made to yourselves and to your partners...loose yr self...all in the name of getting gifts to show off to your friends....who cares it is freakin Valentine's day anyway...let is serve its freakin purpose...to 'spread' the love....but know this Karma is a biatch....we all reap what we sow...at some freaking point of our lives...
ZeeK love...
Well I just think this Valentine thing is hogwash and a marketing gimmick that is raped by marketers... Women wait for this lousy day as if its a defining moment for their love. I just think love is unconditional and goes way beyond the kisses and all Red stuff (anyway real men dont celebrate valentines and drik pink drinks). Love has no season, time it has no bounderies. One can equate it to gravity, whether you like it or not it is there, so should be your idea of love.
ReplyDeleteMarriage has taught me one thing, noone can define love as there are just too many pieces dat need to be fitted together for one to say you in love...
Those in the know how or rather confusion say there are butterfles in the stomach , my question is then what u do when the relationship hits a winter season and the butterflies are gone???
Next time umntu esithi I love you. Mbuze undithandelani and undithanda ngoba kutheni?
Hope lovers will spend everyday trying to figure out why they love each other more than izolo...
Tata-
Chip on your shoulder, I still say
ReplyDeleteYou on point like a bow and arrow, you hit the target accurate!!!
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